Tuesday, November 3, 2009

Top 10 Sex Facts We Bet You Didn't Know!

  So you think you know everything there's to know about sex? Well, you couldn't be more wrong! Various studies and research carried out across the globe reveal many interesting facts about lovemaking and sex, most of which you'll find educational as well as highly surprising.



For instance, did you know that it is actually possible for men to break their penis while having sex? No kidding! Although the male member does not have any bones, it can still break and get fractured if the man is too rough during sex. Such an injury is more common in younger males than older ones (for obvious reasons). This injury can be extremely painful and take a long time to heal.

Here's another sex fact that is not common knowledge - Kissing can help to reduce dental problems such as tooth decaying! More saliva is produced in the mouth when you kiss and as saliva helps to clean your mouth of bacteria, the result is fewer dental problems. So if you want to improve oral hygiene, start kissing!

Didn't we say you'd find these lovemaking facts very interesting?

Sex makes you more intelligent
Medical research has found that sex helps to bring about seven different types of chemical reactions in your brain, all of which optimize the functioning of your brain. Hormones such as serotonin and oxycotin are also released during and after sex, which make you more creative and help in decision making.

Older people are doing it too!
Various studies in America have revealed that people in the age group of 57-85 years still believe that sex is an important part of their lives and are in fact indulging in lovemaking about 2-3 times every month. We will have to wait for similar studies to be conducted in India to know if the same holds true for older Indians as well!

 Sex can increase your life span
If you are a man that is. Having sex at least once a week, on a regular basis, has shown to increase a man's life greatly. Men are more likely to live longer than 80 years if they have an active sex life. Lovemaking helps to lower a man's risk of death by heart ailments by 30%, from stroke by 50%, and diabetes by 40%!

 But women have more orgasms!
Till a decade back, only about 25% of women who had sex actually had orgasms. However, in the last few years, this figure has gone up to about 45%. Women today also do not fake orgasms as much as they did and are more open to telling their partners if they did not climax

 Oral sex can lead to throat cancer
Medical studies have shown that people who have indulged in oral sex with more than 5 partners in their lifetime are at an increased risk of throat cancer. The same does NOT hold true for people with fewer sex partners. Another reason to practice safe sex and remain faithful!

 Sex at work is on the rise
Mixing business with pleasure seems to be extremely popular nowadays. Statistics suggest that 1 in every 5 people is indulging in sex with their colleagues at work. Not just that, but lovemaking during office hours is also on the rise; with the boss's desk being the place of choice!

 Abstinence does not work
Now there's scientific proof that claims that abstinence programs just do not work. There has been no decrease in unwanted pregnancies or in the number of STD's in spite of various abstinence programs in colleges and universities. Educating youth about safe sex and the consequences of unsafe sex is what needs to be focused upon.

 The world's most sexless nation is
...Japan! Yes, Japanese people are more unsatisfied with their sex lives than people of any other nation. More than 35% of married Japanese couples do not indulge in lovemaking at all. Now that's one problem that does not seem to inflict Indians!

 Threesome's aren't as rare as you think
About 70% of people fantasize about having group sex at some point in their lives; with a fair majority of such people actually indulging in it. Gay and lesbian lovemaking is also on the rise.

 Chocolate may be better than sex!
Eating chocolate turns you on more than sexual foreplay can. It has also been proved that chocolate consumption accelerates your heart beat and increases brain activity more than lovemaking can. But while all this may be true, people would still rather make love over eating a piece of chocolate!

99 Facts About Guys! Believe It Or Not...

1. Guys don't actually look after good-looking girls. They prefer neat and presentable girls.
2. Guys love flirts.
3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.
4. When a guy says he doesn't understand you, it simply means you're not thinking the way he is.
5. "Are you doing something?" or "Have you eaten already?" are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.
6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.
7. When a guy really likes you, he'll disregard all your bad characteristics.
8. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.
9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl's attention.
10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.
11. When guys want to meet your parents. Let them.
12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can't. And they sure have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking!
13. Guys cry!!!!!!!!
14. Don't provoke the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will.
15. Guys can never dream and hope too much.
16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.
17. When you touch a guy's heart, there's no turning back.
18. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh...never mind!" would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking.
19. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands.
20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.
21. When a guy makes a prolonged "umm" or makes any excuses when you're asking him to do you a favor, he's actually saying that he doesn't like you and he can't lay down the card for you.
22. When a girl says "no", a guy hears it as "try again tomorrow."
23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.
24. Guys hate gays!
25. Guys love their moms.
26. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.
27. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn't mean that the guy likes her.
28. You can never understand him unless you listen to him.
29. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.
30. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.
31. Like Eve, girls are guys EUR™ weaknesses.
32. Guys are very open about themselves.
33. It's good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don't let him wait that long.
34. No guy is bad when he is courting.
35. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.
36. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they're not that much pretty.
37. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.
38. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.
39. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.
40. A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.
41. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts.
42. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one.
43. Guys virtually brag about anything.
44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.
45. Guys think too much.
46. Guys' fantasies are unlimited.
47. Girls' height doesn't really matter to a guy but her weight does!
48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. So watch out girls!!
49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.
50. It's not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke up especially when they've been together for 3 years or more.
51. You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved with that guy.
52. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won't be matured and grow up.
53. When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.
54. Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.
55. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed pussycats with their girlfriends.
56. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he's sweating. You'll probably see that he is nervous.
57. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl. He really is.
58. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me."
59. Guys don't really have final decisions.
60. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.
61. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him.
62. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.
63. Guys believe that there's no such thing as love at first sight, but court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong.
64. Guys like femininity not feebleness.
65. Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.
66. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure unless the girl tells him.
67. A guy would waste his time over video games and basketball, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups.
68. Guys love girls who can cook or bake.
69. Guys like girls who are like their moms. No kidding!
70. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.
71. A guy's friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.
72. Don't be a snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of rejection.
73. Don't be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you'll be surprised.
74. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than attracting guys.
75. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about girls.
76. Guys don't comprehend the statement "Get lost" too well.
77. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions but still love them more.
78. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he just tried to be polite.
79. Guys don't care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.
80. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them, they'll realize they're wrong.
81. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He's just too stubborn to deal with it.
82. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.
83. Guys' weakest point is at the knee.
84. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out.
85. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing things.
86. When a guy looks at you, either he's amazed of you or he's criticizing you.
87. When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance, give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance, ignore him.
88. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.
89. If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at you and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you're with your boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your boyfriend does.
90. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.
91. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain when he cries in front of you!
92. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.
93. When a guy says he can't sleep if he doesn't hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.
94. You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him praying sometimes.
95. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.
96. Girls are allowed to touch boys' things. Not their hair!
97. If a guy says you're beautiful, that guy likes you.
98. Guys hate girls who overreact.
99. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships

[Warning: some images on this list are not work safe] Sex is one of life’s pleasures and it is practiced by most people at least once in their lifetime. This list takes a look at some more unusual facts about sex and sex related topics. Feel free to add your own interesting facts to the comments.

 
10: Weightloss
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Fascinating Fact: Sexual acts lead to weight loss
The average human loses 26 calories when kissing for a minute. Furthermore, vigorous sex for half an hour burns 150 calories (you can lose three pounds in a year – if you have sex 7 to 8 times a month). Kissing is also very good for your teeth: the extra saliva released during the act helps to keep the mouth clean – reducing the risk of decay.


9: Pubic Wigs
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Fascinating Fact: In Victorian times, whores wore pubic wigs
The pubic wig (merkin) has been around since the 1400s when it was originally worn by women who had shaved their pubic hair off to prevent lice. In the Victorian times it was frequently worn by prostitutes who wanted to conceal the fact that they had diseases like syphilis (Honest – we aren’t merkin’ this up). They are also used in the film industry to conceal actors genitals in nude scenes.


8: Condoms
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Fascinating Fact: Condoms were originally made of animal intestines or linen
In Asia before the fifteenth century, some use of glans condoms (devices covering only the head of the penis) is recorded. In China, glans condoms may have been made of oiled silk paper, or of lamb intestines. In Japan, they were made of tortoise shell or animal horn (ouch). In the 16th century,condoms were often made with linen sheaths soaked in a chemical solution and allowed to dry before use. The cloths were sized to cover the glans of the penis, and were held on with a ribbon. Pictured above is an animal intestine condom from the early 1900s.


7: Not Tonight Josephine
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Fascinating Fact: Sex cures headaches
Next time your significant other refuses your advances by claiming to have a headache, remember this fact: the sex act can help to cure a headache. Sex causes the body to release endorphins which naturally reduce the pain of a headache.


6: Skin Care
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Fascinating Fact: Sperm is good for the skin
The proteins in sperm have a tightening effect on the skin. When sperm is left to dry, the evaporation of the water in it leaves behind protein which can help to reduce wrinkles. While this may be an excellent anti-aging treatment, the obvious downside is that you have to walk around with sperm on your face.
Just paying the bills...


5: Pubic Hair
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Fascinating Fact: Pubic hair is programmed to grow a certain amount
All hair on the body is controlled by a “growth program” which determines the growth duration (and consequently the length) of hair.Pubic hair has a shorter growth duration (on average just a few months) compared to hair on the head. This is what stops pubic hair growing to unmanageable lengths.


4: Blowsy Gal
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Fascinating Fact: The term “blow job” comes from the Victorian times
In Victorian times, a slang term for a prostitute was “blowsy”. At the same time, “blow” was slang for ejaculation. Consequently, by the 1930s, the act of fellatio came to be known as a blow job. It was also used to describe jet planes in World War Two. In Ancient Greece, the common slang for a blow job was “playing the flute”.


3: Male Porn
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Fascinating Fact: Men looking at male porn produce more sperm
Studies have shown that men who looked at porn of two men and one woman produced more sperm than those who looked at just women. Scientists speculate that seeing competition makes men step up their baby-making capacities.


2: Sex For Fun
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Fascinating Fact: Humans aren’t the only creatures to have sex for fun.
Humans aren’t the only members of the animal kingdom that have sex just for fun. Dolphins and Bonobo chimps have also been observed engaging in sexual activity, when they are not in their natural reproductive cycles. With the exception of a pair of Cohan gorillas observed doing so, bonobos are the only non-human animal to have been observed engaging in all of the following sexual activities: face-to-face genital sex, tongue kissing, and oral sex. When Bonobos come upon a new food source or feeding ground, the increased excitement will usually lead to communal sexual activity, presumably decreasing tension and allowing for peaceful feeding. Interestingly, Bonobo chimps also play and experience joy like humans.


1: Animal Prostitution
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Fascinating Fact: Some female penguins engage in prostitution
Believe it or not, in the wild, certain female penguins (even when in a committed relationship) will exchange sexual favors with strange males for the pebbles they need to build their nests. According to Dr Fiona Hunter (a zoologist): “It tends to be females targeting single males, otherwise the partner female would beat the intruder up.” On some occasions the prostitute penguins trick the males. They carry out the elaborate courtship ritual, which usually leads to mating. Having bagged their stone, they would then run off. [Source]

Monday, November 2, 2009

Tuesday Thirteen: Sexual Phobias

Sexual Phobias

Erotophobia is the fear of sexual love or sexual questions.
Eurotophobia is the fear of female genitalia.
Genophobia is the fear of sex.
Malaxophobia is the fear of love play.
Medomalacuphobia is the fear of losing an erection.
Medorthophobia- is the fear of an erect penis.
Oneirogmophobia is the fear of wet dreams.
Paraphobia is the fear of sexual perversion.
Parthenophobia is the fear of virgins.
Ithyphallophobia is a morbid fear of seeing, thinking about or having an erect penis.
Coitophobia is the fear of sexual intercourse.
Philemaphobia or Philematophobia is the fear of kiss.
Gymnophobia is the morbid phobia of being nude.

Don’t worry! I’m not going to ask you if you have any of these phobias.

Tuesday Thirteen- 13 Things not to say during sex

Things Not to Say During Sex
  1. Are you almost done?
  2. Hunny did you lock the door?
  3. You’re done already?
  4. Try not to mess up my hair will you?
  5. I feel a headache coming on.
  6. Hunny, have you put on some weight?
  7. Again? I’m tired.
  8. Is it in yet?
  9. Stop, I gotta pee.
  10. Are you ok?
  11. Hurry up before the kids get home.
  12. Did you fart?
  13. Was it good for you?
Please feel free to add one of your own in the comment section.

13 Sex Facts – Tuesday Thirteen

Sex Facts


Did you know?


* Sex is an instant cure for mild depression. It releases endorphins into the bloodstream, producing a sense of euphoria and leaving you with a feeling of well-being


* A lot of lovemaking can unblock a stuffy nose. Sex is a natural antihistamine. It can help combat asthma and hay fever.


* The earliest known illustration of a man using a condom during sexual intercourse is painted on the wall of a cave in France. It is dated between 12,000 and 15,000 years old.


* The first condoms in the US were made from vulcanized rubber in the 1870s. They were expensive and annoyingly thick and meant to be reused.


* In Texas it is illegal to sell a vibrator as anything other than a ‘novelty’.


* Only 17% of women are likely to have an orgasm during sex (Durex Global Sex Survey).


* According to a survey of sex shop owners, cherry is the most popular flavor of edible underwear.


* A man will ejaculate approximately 18 quarts of semen, containing half a trillion sperm, in his lifetime.


* 48% of 9,100 men polled on an online dating site say they too have faked an orgasm.


* In ancient Greece and Rome dildos were carved out of everything they could get their hands on from wood, glass, leather, gold, silver and even animal horns.


* The left testicle usually hangs lower than the right for right-handed men. The opposite is true for lefties.


* A female orgasm is a powerful painkiller (because of the release of endorphins), so headaches are in fact a bad excuse not to have sex.


* John Harvey Kellogg invented corn flakes as a meatless breakfast food, designed to reduce the sexual drive.

Interesting Sexual Facts about both Animals and Humans

Men 

A man will ejaculate approximately 18 quarts of semen, containing half a trillion sperm, in his lifetime 

Men are six times more likely than women to peruse sexually explicit material on the Internet

The smallest erect penis on record was just 1cm long 

Three out of a thousand men (0.3%) are well endowed enough to fellate (blow) themselves to orgasm

According to recent surveys, the man is the most likely partner to be tied up during sex

Among primates, man has the largest and thickest penis 

Studies have shown that men become sexually aroused nearly every time they dream

Studies show that, for some unknown reason, the higher the level of education, the more men tend to have wet dreams

The male fetus is capable of attaining an erection during the last trimester

At age seventy, 73% of men are still potent. 

A man's testicles increase in size by 50% when he is aroused. 

The left testicle usually hangs lower than the right for right-handed men. The opposite is true for lefties. 

56% of men have had sex at work. 

Average number of times a man will ejaculate in his lifetime: 7,200; Average # of times he will ejaculate from masturbation: 2,000. 

Average length of penis when not erect: 3.5 inches; Average length when erect: 5.1. 

Percent of men who say they masturbate: 60% (the other 39% lied). 

Percent of men who say they masturbate at least once a day: 54%. 

Amount of time needed for a man to regain erection: from 2 minutes to 2 weeks. 

Average # of erections per day for a man: 11. 

Average # of erections during the night: 9. 

Odors that increase blood flow to the penis:lavender, licorice, chocolate, doughnuts, pumpkin pie

Women

About one per cent of women can orgasm solely through breast stimulation. 

30% of women over the age of 80 still have sexual intercourse either with their spouse or boyfriends. 

Sex is a beauty treatment. Scientific tests find that when women make love they produce amounts of the hormone estrogen, which makes hair shine and skin smooth. 

Women who went to college are more likely to enjoy both the giving and receiving of oral sex than high school dropouts. (Amazing what one learns in college). 

Women are most likely to want to have sex when they are ovulating. 

Women with a Ph.D. are twice as likely to be interested in a one-night stand than those with only a Bachelor's degree. 

According to Penthouse magazine, more women complain about infrequent sex than men do. 

Forty percent of women have said they had an orgasm while dreaming about sex. 

That number is 80% for men. 

The frequency with which a woman has orgasms during her sleep actually increases as she ages during her childbearing years. 

According to Playboy, more women talk dirty during sex than men 

It's been estimated that one out of every two hundred women is born with an extra nipple.
 
A female orgasm is a powerful painkiller (because of the release of endorphins), so headaches are in fact a bad excuse not to have sex. 

Sperm

Semen contains small amounts of more than thirty elements, including fructose, ascorbic acid, cholesterol, creatine, citric acid, lactic acid, nitrogen, vitamin B12, and various salts and enzymes. 

Sperm banks keep their donor semen at approximately -321 degrees Fahrenheit. At that temperature, it could be kept indefinitely. 

There are five calories in a teaspoon of semen. 

Average speed of ejaculation: 28 miles per hour; Time it takes the sperm to travel the distance: 2.5 seconds. 

Distance sperm travels to fertilize an egg: 3-4 inches 

It takes a sperm one hour to swim 7 inches. 

Man VS Animal

Half of the men raised on farms have had a sexual encounter with an animal, according to research. 

A pig's orgasm lasts for 30 minutes 

Humans and dolphins are the only species that have sex for pleasure. 

The black widow spider eats her mate during or after sex. 

Around the World
 
In Medieval France, cheating wives were made to chase a chicken through town NAKED
Australian women have sex on the first date more than women the same age in the USA and Canada

Today, Japan leads the world in condom use. Like cosmetics, they're sold door to door, by women. 

Wyoming’s Grand Tetons mountain range literally means “Big Tits”. 

While nudity was considered commonplace to the ancient Greeks, a man was considered indecent if he had an exposed erection 

The first known contraceptive was crocodile dung, used by the Egyptians in 2000 B.C. It was replaced with elephant droppings when they realized it wouldn't work. 

When men of the Walibri tribe of central Australia greet each other, they shake penises instead of hands.

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