Sex has become monotonous in my relationship. What would you recommend to spice things up?
You may want to explore Pure Romance’s foreplay products to help spice up your relationship. Foreplay products are one of the easiest ways to add fun and excitement to sexual activity. Pure Romance has a full line of foreplay products that you and your partner can use together. For example, the new Date Night Game allows couples to communicate with each other, while having fun at the same time! There are several types of cards, including conversation and action cards, that will help set the mood for a full night of pleasure.
Massage is another great foreplay activity. Massage allows couples to connect with each other, while at the same time increasing arousal and exploring each other’s bodies. Two popular massage products are Hot Heart Massager and Burning Desire candle, which can be used together. Burning Desire is a soy-based massage oil candle that never burns hotter than body temperature. Hot Heart Massager is a reusable heat pack that provides users with a warm, relaxing experience. You can pair Burning Desire and Hot Heart Massager together for the ultimate warm massage. You and your partner are encouraged to browse through Pure Romance’s foreplay products (as well as our bath and massage products) to help find the perfect item(s) for you.
Finally, you should talk to your partner about your interest in spicing things up in your relationship. Communication is extremely important in relationships, and, at Pure Romance, we encourage open, honest communication throughout a relationship. Talk to your partner and explain your thoughts and feelings regarding your desire to try new things and spice things up. You and your partner can then decide together what types of things that you could like to do/try to add fun and excitement to your sexual activities. The discussion in itself may help to add spice to your relationship.
I am interested in trying anal play with my partner, but do not know how to bring it up. I have a difficult time talking to my partner about my sexual interests. What do you recommend?
Communication is an extremely important part of all relationships; couples should engage in open, honest communication regularly. Communication is also very important when it comes to sexual activities like anal play. Both partners should feel comfortable engaging in the activity and should agree on how they will engage in anal play. Couples should decide together if they want to take things slowly, and should set a “safe word” in case one person experiences any discomfort.
If you feel comfortable doing so, you can simply tell your partner that you are interested in engaging in anal play, and ask your partner how they feel about your desires. You can explain your thoughts and feelings behind the intrigue and your desire to engage in anal play and see how your partner thinks and feels about it. You could also use books or games to help communicate your desires with your partner. “Tickle Your Fancy” has a chapter on anal play; you can read the book, highlight areas that you would like to discuss, and leave it in an area for your partner to find. You could also sit down together and read this chapter at the same time. This can help open the discussion around anal stimulation.
If your partner decides that this is something they do not want to engage in, there are ways for you to explore anal penetration on your own. Pure Romance has a full line of anal play products that you can use during self-stimulation to explore anal penetration. Our products are easy-to-use and many of them are great for beginners, including the Butt Plug and Little Gem. I encourage you to use a lubricant during anal play, as the rectum does not self-lubricate like the vagina. We recommend silicone-based lubricants, such as Pure Pleasure, because they are gentle and long-lasting. With the right lubrication and self-exploration, you may fulfill your fantasies and desires.
You may want to explore Pure Romance’s foreplay products to help spice up your relationship. Foreplay products are one of the easiest ways to add fun and excitement to sexual activity. Pure Romance has a full line of foreplay products that you and your partner can use together. For example, the new Date Night Game allows couples to communicate with each other, while having fun at the same time! There are several types of cards, including conversation and action cards, that will help set the mood for a full night of pleasure.
Massage is another great foreplay activity. Massage allows couples to connect with each other, while at the same time increasing arousal and exploring each other’s bodies. Two popular massage products are Hot Heart Massager and Burning Desire candle, which can be used together. Burning Desire is a soy-based massage oil candle that never burns hotter than body temperature. Hot Heart Massager is a reusable heat pack that provides users with a warm, relaxing experience. You can pair Burning Desire and Hot Heart Massager together for the ultimate warm massage. You and your partner are encouraged to browse through Pure Romance’s foreplay products (as well as our bath and massage products) to help find the perfect item(s) for you.
Finally, you should talk to your partner about your interest in spicing things up in your relationship. Communication is extremely important in relationships, and, at Pure Romance, we encourage open, honest communication throughout a relationship. Talk to your partner and explain your thoughts and feelings regarding your desire to try new things and spice things up. You and your partner can then decide together what types of things that you could like to do/try to add fun and excitement to your sexual activities. The discussion in itself may help to add spice to your relationship.
I am interested in trying anal play with my partner, but do not know how to bring it up. I have a difficult time talking to my partner about my sexual interests. What do you recommend?
Communication is an extremely important part of all relationships; couples should engage in open, honest communication regularly. Communication is also very important when it comes to sexual activities like anal play. Both partners should feel comfortable engaging in the activity and should agree on how they will engage in anal play. Couples should decide together if they want to take things slowly, and should set a “safe word” in case one person experiences any discomfort.
If you feel comfortable doing so, you can simply tell your partner that you are interested in engaging in anal play, and ask your partner how they feel about your desires. You can explain your thoughts and feelings behind the intrigue and your desire to engage in anal play and see how your partner thinks and feels about it. You could also use books or games to help communicate your desires with your partner. “Tickle Your Fancy” has a chapter on anal play; you can read the book, highlight areas that you would like to discuss, and leave it in an area for your partner to find. You could also sit down together and read this chapter at the same time. This can help open the discussion around anal stimulation.
If your partner decides that this is something they do not want to engage in, there are ways for you to explore anal penetration on your own. Pure Romance has a full line of anal play products that you can use during self-stimulation to explore anal penetration. Our products are easy-to-use and many of them are great for beginners, including the Butt Plug and Little Gem. I encourage you to use a lubricant during anal play, as the rectum does not self-lubricate like the vagina. We recommend silicone-based lubricants, such as Pure Pleasure, because they are gentle and long-lasting. With the right lubrication and self-exploration, you may fulfill your fantasies and desires.

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